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Get in the Ring: Why Cheering from the Stands Never Wins Titles

Hey,

Let's get real for a moment. You want to win, right? You want to achieve your goals, reach your potential, and claim your title. But are you actually in the ring, or are you just cheering from the stands?

Here's the truth: "You won't get any blows unless you're in the ring nor will you win a title cheering in the stands."

It's a simple analogy, but it packs a powerful punch.

The Illusion of Safety

The stands are comfortable. They're safe. You can watch the action, offer commentary, and feel like you're part of the game without risking anything.

But you're not in the game. You're a spectator.

The Reality of the Ring

The ring is where the action happens. It's where you face challenges, take risks, and learn from your mistakes. It's where you get hit, but it's also where you land your own punches.

And it's the only place where you can win a title.

I used to be a master of the stands. I'd watch others take risks and achieve success, while I remained safely on the sidelines. But then I realized that I wasn't living my own story.

Are you a spectator or a contender? Are you playing it safe, or are you willing to get your hands dirty?

Getting in the ring isn't easy, but it's where you unlock your true potential. It's where you discover your strength, resilience, and determination.

How does it feel to watch others live the life you want? Frustrating? Disappointing? You want to feel like you are making progress. This one decision can change everything.

Your Action Step

Identify the areas of your life where you're playing it safe. Where are you cheering from the stands instead of getting in the ring?

Then, take one small step to get into the action. It might be starting a new project, having a difficult conversation, or taking a calculated risk.

Don't wait for the perfect moment. The perfect moment is now.

Get in the ring and fight for your title.

To your Momentum & Mastery,

Spencer


Photo by Hush Naidoo Jade Photography on Unsplash


About Spencer Combs:

Spencer Combs is a business leader and author of Momentum and Mastery: The Business Leader's Guide to Fastrack Unshakeable Profit, Productivity, and Purpose. With a passion for helping others transform their challenges into opportunities, Spencer offers unique insights through his events, coaching programs, and daily text messages.

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