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The Stories We Tell Ourselves: Why You’re More Than You Think

There’s a story running in your head right now. A narrative you didn’t consciously choose, but one that shapes your actions, decisions, and results. It might sound like, “I’m doing the best I can,” or “This is as far as I can go.” But here’s the truth: you’re more than you think.

We’ve all been there. Standing at a crossroads, aware of our potential yet paralyzed by the demands, distractions, and derailments of life. It’s easy to convince ourselves that the status quo is enough. But deep down, we know better. We’ve tasted moments where we felt alive, driven, and unstoppable. So why do we settle?

The resistance we feel comes in many forms.

  • Demands: The bills to pay, the emails to answer, the endless to-do lists.
  • Distractions: The dopamine hits from reels, notifications, and the noise of a world that rewards instant gratification.
  • Delusions: Believing that what we have now is all there is.
  • Derailments: Life’s unexpected curveballs that knock us off course.

These forces are powerful, but they aren’t insurmountable. The key isn’t in avoiding them—it’s in facing them with clarity, courage, and consistency.

Clarity comes when we dream again. Not just idle fantasies, but bold visions that disturb us enough to act. Courage is born in those moments when we decide—truly decide—that we’re done playing small. And consistency? It’s the daily rhythm, the rituals that anchor us, even when progress feels slow.

Here’s a thought to hold onto:
You are fearfully and wonderfully made. You’re designed to think big, act boldly, and create meaning. Your brain, with its billions of cells, is as vast and complex as the Milky Way. Your potential is limitless, but only if you believe it is.

What’s stopping you from reaching for more?

  • Is it a delusion that you’ve already peaked?
  • A distraction pulling your focus?
  • A demand convincing you there’s no time?

The good news? You can overcome these. Start by dreaming. Imagine what’s possible. Then desire it deeply. Let the discomfort of your current state disturb you enough to make a decision. That decision is the bridge between your potential and your reality.

This isn’t about working harder. It’s about committing fully. Purpose gives direction. Priorities create focus. And performance builds momentum. But all of it starts with believing that you’re more than you think.

Take a moment today. Journal about where you’ve been and where you want to go. Look at your dreams not as distant hopes, but as stepping stones to a life that’s waiting for you. And remember, progress doesn’t require perfection—it requires action.

Your story isn’t finished yet. Rewrite it. Share it. Live it.

You’re more than you think. Start proving it today.

To your Momentum & Mastery, 

Spencer





About Spencer Combs:

Spencer Combs is a business leader and author of Momentum and Mastery: The Business Leader's Guide to Fastrack Unshakeable Profit, Productivity, and Purpose. With a passion for helping others transform their challenges into opportunities, Spencer offers unique insights through his events, coaching programs, and daily text messages.


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