I have a bad allergy and it's probably not what you think .… Seriously… My body has a full on physiological response…. My stomach turns… My teeth tighten… My temperature rises… Until I eventually hit a threshold. Maybe it’s my Enneagram type. Maybe its my long history of not seeing the value in it since childhood. Or maybe I recognize its Maybeline and you’re just putting make up over the real issue. If we’re going to have a conversation and my subconscious mind gets the itch this is turning into drama… be prepared for one of two responses. If I care about you, I will ask questions that will eventually lead you to the actual problem. If I don’t care about you, I will politely listen until you have recognized I am not going to feed your BS. I get it, sometimes we all need to vent. If you’re like me and can’t stand drama, let me give you some help that made all the difference in the world for me. There are 3 sides to drama and this is the cycle. The Persecutor The Victim The Rescuer back to the Persecutor. Round and around. Want to break that cycle? Figure out which role you are playing and go the other way with it. The Rescuer needs to empower the Victim. The Victim needs to challenge the Persecutor. The Persecutor needs to ask the Rescuer “is being co-dependent actually the best strategy?” Or “how long do you plan to be an enabler?” Thank you for listening to my TedTalk. Be sure to like and subscribe on my channel. lol Spencer About Spencer Combs: Spencer Combs is a business leader and author of Momentum and Mastery: The Business Leader's Guide to Fastrack Unshakeable Profit, Productivity, and Purpose. With a passion for helping others transform their challenges into opportunities, Spencer offers unique insights through his events, coaching programs, and daily text messages. Take the Next Step:
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In the world of business, success isn’t just about strategy or growth hacks; it’s about people. And people don’t thrive on tactics alone; they thrive on transformation. This is the core of Momentum and Mastery , a framework that didn’t materialize in a brainstorm over pizza and Coke but emerged from 20 years of hands-on, often gritty experience in the trenches with entrepreneurs, leaders, and changemakers. The building blocks? Mindset, Mechanics, and Movement. These aren’t just nice words to put on a PowerPoint slide; they’re the ingredients of real growth. Mindset gives you the resilience to face challenges; Mechanics offer the structure you need to execute, and Movement propels you forward. But here’s the kicker: they need to work in harmony. When they don’t align, you’ll find yourself spinning, chasing goals that seem to slip further away. Think about it: how often do we push ourselves with motivation alone? How often do we throw ourselves into action without aligning our mindset...
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